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ANXIETY CRISIS
CENTER
Remaining Calm During Difficult Times
The Anxiety Busters! Organization has received
many telephone calls since the tragedy that took place on September
11th 2001. Those who have never experienced anxious symptoms
and feelings are now calling our helpline due to their reaction
to current events. Much of this news is shocking and frightening,
causing immediate body reactions. Many of the reactions are in
response to the h ormone ADRENALINE, which the body produces in
response to frightening thoughts. This along with other stress
hormones may cause a person to feel "jittery" and "on
edge." Watching a frightening news report, or listening
to the radio is enough to trigger an anxiety response for many.
If tension builds and worry persists the person may find themselves
in the fear->anxiety ->fear cycle. Tension produces
body symptoms which frightens the person into worried thoughts,
which produces an adrenaline response. This, in turn, produces
fearful body feelings and frightens the person into even further
fearful thoughts. More fear is triggered and continued adrenaline
response as the cycle perpetuates itself.
Here are some tips on how to keep calm
during these difficult times and how to cope when trauma enters
your life:
1. Maintain your Normal
Routine- If you do not have a routine,
this is a good time to establish one. Eat at specific times and
keep your children on this routine. It is comforting and stabilizing
to have a routine and helps to stick to it during times of crisis.
Realize there are certain events you plainly have no control
over. Therefore to worry in excess about something you cannot
control is self defeating. Use your energy for more positive
endeavors. Yes, remain vigilant in your life and follow your
instincts but without draining yourself over events that are
clearly uncontrollable.
2. Express Yourself- Be sure to talk about your feelings and express
your fears and feelings of doubt. Speak with a trusted friend
or anyone you feel comfortable speaking with and continue to
do so when you feel upset. This is important and an integral
step in feeling calm during difficult times. Unexpressed emotions
can all too often surface as anxiety if unexpressed.
3. Exercise-
Go
outdoors if possible and walk. Move off this excess energy caused
by worry. Adrenaline remains in the body after worry and can
be re-absorbed through mild exercise. Take a walk in the sunshine,
since sunshine also helps raise serotonin levels in the body,
which helps to lift your spirits. Move off the adrenaline and
see the instant results as you let go of body tension and the
tightness that accompanies it. You might want to do some stretching
also. Yoga is very helpful, as is swimming. The bottom line is
to move off the tension and mild walking is the quickest and
easiest remedy for this type of tension.
4. Foods Affect Moods- Watch what you eat, and Drink! This is the time
to avoid Caffeine, Nicotine, Alcohol and an excess of Simple
Sugars. They are ALL stimulants. Try eating "healthy"
around this time and your body will not react as quickly or emotionally
to situations. You may notice your cravings for "comfort
foods, during this time. This is very normal. Most people are
actually "self medicating" as they do during winter
months when the are not exposed to sunlight as frequently. You
may find yourself reaching for more pastas, breads, cakes and
cereals. This is fine and it will raise serotonin levels but
try to opt for the healthier choices as it wont add to
your overall sugar "hit" and it will take longer to
digest. Therefore, reach for the more complex carbohydrates such
as whole grain foods, potatoes and pastas, rather than the cookies
and cakes. Also the ones lower on the glycemic scale will stay
with you longer, rather than a piece of candy which gives you
a large sugar hit and only stays a short time. Try a bowl of
Cheerios with a banana, instead of reaching for the bowl of candy!
ALSO, drink pure water. Try for 8 glasses a day. This will keep you hydrated
and feeling calmer also.
5. Remember,
Worry is a HABIT and you can become entrenched in worry.
One worry may leave and another might step in to take its place.
This is all part of sensitization. Break the chain of worry by
actively doing something positive about it. Meet with friends,
go outdoors, distract yourself by losing your thoughts in a more
positive and joyful interest.
6. Take a BREAK-
Turn off the Television- You can still stay aware and alert without
constant watching and listening. Everyone needs a break and time
to regroup. Find something enjoyable and do it! If there is important
news you will find out soon enough. You deserve a break from
the onslaught and are not required to listen 24-7. Take a nap,
take a walk or take time out. We all need this time for ourselves.
7. Help Someone Else- Offer your assistance to another person. This
will take you out of yourself and put a halt to introspection.
Reach out to others, volunteer to help an organization and be
there for someone else. This is the fastest and most rewarding
method to alleviate your own fears. This is a blessing and you
will reap the rewards three-fold. In the process, you will lose
a great deal of your fears.
8. Have Trust and Faith- Visit your place of worship or talk to a member
of the clergy and find renewed faith and hope in doing so. This
is a lifeline to so many and does work! Many feel instant relief
after doing so and we highly recommend this.
9. Reach for Positivity- Lean toward books and movies with calmer and more
positive themes. Take your children to the movies or outdoors
to the park. Put cartoons and other mild movies on for them to
watch. You might want to watch also, as it can be a break you
might also need.
10. Keep a Journal- If you have no one to talk to, then take a break
once a day and write your emotions into a journal. Use this as
your "quiet time" as you allow yourself to express
all your feelings. Recognize if you are mad, sad, scared or glad.
These are the primary emotions and if expressed, they will enable
you to avoid the panic feelings. A journal can be a very helpful
tool during times of stress. It helps you sort out your thoughts
and feelings and disarm those overpowering feelings of stress.
11. Rest-
Instead
of staying up all night and watching the news, allow yourself
to get the proper amount of sleep. A carbohydrate minus
the protein will help you feel drowsy late at night. Therefore,
if you feel tense, try a handful of cereal, minus the milk before
bed. You might opt for a muffin, toast or even a potato. They
all induce sleep and enhance serotonin production. You might
even find you have sweet dreams!
12. Breathe-
Be
aware of breath holding, which is a common response to perceived
danger. Be sure to breathe deeply and smoothly. This will add
to your sense of well being.
Most of all, know you are not alone.
You have your friends, family and others in your life that
are all feeling the same emotions. These feelings are universal
during difficult times. Learning how to accept and eliminate
"what if" type thinking is also essential and will
add to your own personal feelings of security. Please feel free
to call our Anxiety Helpline if you feel the need
for support or just need someone to listen... We are here for
you!
Anxiety Busters!
Anxiety Helpline
215-635-4700 10:00 AM EST 10:00 PM
EST, 7
Days a Week.
The "Natural" approach to the anxiety
condition!
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